Getting by with humor and the nursery!

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Humor. Lots and lots of humor.

My new lifeline.

“Forget the fallen sock. I gots me some coffee! Priorities, people!”

 

Don’t worry, this doesn’t happen:

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How can we be sure, you ask? Check out our awesome organization! We’d literally be lost without it.

Type A? No, it's called BEING ORGANIZED!

Type A? No, it’s called BEING ORGANIZED!

A good sense of humor, along with a positive attitude, patience, and faith, has been helping us get through each day, especially tough moments when we are seriously running on empty, both babies are crying, and the chance to nap, eat, or even breathe doesn’t seem close by. But we do get through it. We figure out what the babies need. We finish washing all the bottles and pumping parts. We are able to inhale something close to nutrition (or chocolate cake). We finally approach the light at the end of the tunnel. I feel terrible for always venting and bringing up the hard parts about this new life of ours. Yes, we LOVE LOVE LOVE the boys (never a question) and we cannot explain the joy and happiness they bring us. But it is not without the labor and hardships we must endure in order to care for these little guys. They are helpless and need us entirely. WE are their people! It takes a lot out of us and we are drained. This is what gets us through:

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JT

Ok, quick updates from the past few days! 1, 2, 3… here we GO!

We brought the babies out to their first house party! It was a tough decision (mostly for me). First of all, it was not a real party. Just a small gathering and we knew every single person who would be there. It is so important to be careful of the people around the babies. They haven’t gotten their shots yet, they are still newborns, and they cannot afford to get sick. Luckily, it’s not wintertime yet, but nonetheless, we are constantly aware of who is around our babies and handling them. Anywho, we got out of the house more than two hours later than we had originally planned. We had to haul over a bunch of stuff. But we made it! And the boys got to meet their Ate C.A.! (Ate, pronounced ah-TEH, means older sister in Tagalog.)

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Go Niners!

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The boys and Ate C.A.

Check out this army we’ve got… an army of bottles! We are constantly washing. I feel like we need to just buy more bottles already, but I don’t want to be washing 30 bottles at a time. Keeping it to a minimum forces us to wash frequently and I like keeping the sink empty. Does it happen all the time, no way!

Army of bottles

Army of bottles

Can you spot my Starbucks cup? Keep on the lookout because I plan to try to sneak the cup in the background any chance I get =P If you wanna make me happy right now, please come bearing Sbux or boba 🙂

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Adrian holding my face saying, “It’ll be OK, Mama”

The house is a MESS! Even though it is driving us crazy, check out the nursery! I was so excited to finally get started on it. We weren’t able to touch it during the pregnancy because I was on strict bed rest. We made TONS of progress. My parents bought the boys’ dresser and the hubs’ parents bought the cribs. We are also borrowing the glider from a cousin and it has been so nice to have. Loving the room so far! All that is left is a little decor and we’re done.

20130917181532010_20130917181929423See the lion in the middle of the animals? That is Kingy. He has been with us almost from the start. The hubs won him for me during our first trip to Vegas 🙂 When I find the picture I’m thinking of, I will add it to this post.

I always feel like I have a ton more to say. Until next time…

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Tell me something!

~ How do you get through stressful/hard times? Do you use humor, your patience, or some other thing?

~ Are you the type to keep the sink clean of dishes? Or do you let them pile up?

~ Tell me anything! I am all baby these days, so I’d love to hear about what’s going on with the outside world 🙂

 

 

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My mantra from now on

I stumbled across something A-M-A-Z-I-N-G. When I found it, I felt as if the clouds opened up and the light came shining down. It spoke to my obsession with passion for organizing, cleaning, and scheduling. It’s Alejandra.tv! Alejandra is this amazing gal who shares all of her organizing and cleaning tips and secrets on her website. I first found out about her at iheartorganizing.com, another website I love!

I have always had a thing for all things that have to do with organizing and creating systems that create a sense of order (or at least a less chaotic and cluttered space). My excitement is evident in my hoarding collection of post-its, office supplies, colored pens and other writing utensils, baskets/bins, and other storage/organization-type items. So you can imagine how happy I was to find a website that contained so many cool ideas, tricks, and tips in one place. I feel as if Alejandra puts my ideas and goals into tangible and effective steps that are easy (and fun! at least I think so) to follow. I signed up for her free three-video starter series and already felt good following the tip in video #1. I recommend checking it out, especially if you feel you could benefit from making your home or space more organized, cleaner, and less cluttered!

This finding is very timely for me, specifically because I want to take advantage of the few weeks I have left before the babies arrive to organize and clean as much as possible. I know life will be crazy once they’re here, but if I can just make some improvements and steps in the right direction before they get here, I will be a happy camper!

There are a ton of things I could share from Alejandra’s website, but the only one I will talk about here (at least for now =P) is this quote:

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I’ve decided that this will be my MANTRA from now until the rest of my pregnancy! I have a to-do list that seems endless, but in order to get anything done, I really just have to start knocking them out one by one! I am getting really anxious about the babies being here soon and it’s hard to remember I am human and can only do so much. On the contrary, I think I am a superhero who not only can do everything, but can do everything perfectly. The big problem with this thinking is that I am so wrong! I do not have superpowers, I cannot do everything, and I won’t be able to do everything perfectly. Something I have been told a long time ago is that we should always strive for greatness, not perfection. I can do this!!! 🙂 Just as we are taking each day at a time, I need to take each task one at a time and remember that no matter what, I will never be 100% prepared for parenthood anyway, so why put so much pressure on myself?!

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Can’t end this blog post w/o some cool pictures (mainly of food, what else?). Here’s our meal at Panera Bread after one of our appointments last week. I am so proud of myself for finishing the entire spinach “power” salad. The best part was that I didn’t have to ask them to hold anything – usually I am finding myself saying hold the tomatoes, or onions, or some other thing I am picky about. But everything on this salad was delicious! I believe if was onion strings, spinach, mushrooms, bacon, diced boiled eggs, and a very yummy onion honey mustard dressing of some sort. Anyway, the only other thing I really wanted was a frozen lemonade, but someone else (I won’t name names) had eyes bigger than his stomach and ordered not just a panini, but a big kids grilled sandwich! I have to admit though – three types of cheese + bacon on bread is an amazing combo! Glad I got to have a bite 🙂

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The parentals visited the other night and Dad brought these grapes that he grew himself! Yes, they are organic grapes from his own backyard! I remember the first time he told me that he had a vineyard and it was hard for me to believe. But I saw it for myself – he has three vines (his backyard isn’t the hugest) and here is the harvest! (Is it right to call that a harvest?) I am so proud of him and the grapes were really yummy. Might I mention they look really pretty, too?

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Lastly, I wanted to share my very chill Sunday… nails did (thanks to the hubs… again!), feet up, and watching Dreamgirls! Have you seen that movie? I never had and I was glad to finally see it (well, I still have the second half to watch. I didn’t realize how long it is!). I love J. Hud and Beyonce already. I can’t believe I’ve never seen this movie!

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